We all have those stresses in our lives where nothing you do seams to make things better. The worse things get the harder you try to change them, the more the problem seams to resist. Then, all of a sudden every waking moment is consumed by the problem.
Like a fire, it will consume everything in it's path until there is nothing left. If you let your problems consume every waking moment, they will consume you also.
You need a place of retreat to regroup. Maybe a friend to talk to. A business associate or maybe a professional. For many others, they turn the problem over to GOD and ask for help. Regardless of where you turn, just ask someone to help, even if it is just an ear.
Don't let that problem turn into the fire that consumes you!