True Optimism!

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Mortgage and Lending with W.J. Bradley Mortgage Capital LLC (NV License # 504) NMLS 557038

I love it!  I have always believed that I am a true optimist!  It's great to get into a group of people that stay positive.  In this industry you have to be but in day to day life other people seem to get away with being negative. 

I am sure that the other members of the group have heard of "The Secret".  I was a true optimist long before "The Secret" came out but the book/movie did clarify a couple of things for me as an Optimist:

1. Stay away from negative people.  As an optimist I have always stayed positive but I kept people in my life that dragged me down and the more I tried to help them the more I realized they did not want to be helped.  Not anymore, I have worked hard to extricate myself from people that didn't have a positive effect on me and my family.  It sounds ruthless but I have seen a tremendous decrease in OPD (Other People's Drama).

2. Make sure you have visible, documented Goals and a Visionboard.  As much as we all think we know exactly what our Goals and Visions are sometime we forget about them.  If we see them every day, even if it is subconsciously they are going to be there!  I like to try to switch up the placement so it doesn't become mundane.

Do the right thing, Rey "Steak Dinner" Gallegos

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Rainer
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Rory Wilfong
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REY - Welcome and YOU ROCK...Best of Success!!
Jun 14, 2007 08:32 PM #1
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Rey Gallegos
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Thanks Coach! I look forward to helping build the group! Rey
Jun 14, 2007 10:08 PM #2
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Deb Hurt
Realty Pro Albuquerque - Albuquerque, NM
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I really have to be vigilant about staying away from negative people...my husband is a psychologist and I was a counselor/social worker for 25 years before I became a Realtor...I still seem to attract a lot of depressed, negative people into my life- usually not clients- and I have to stifle the urge to try to help them. The more I do it the less difficult it becomes. One thing that I deserve to be around people who are healthy and positive and successful--that I need to be around them if I expect to be that way myself!
Jun 15, 2007 08:52 PM #3
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Rey Gallegos
W.J. Bradley Mortgage Capital LLC (NV License # 504) - Las Vegas, NV
FHA, VA, Home Loans Las Vegas, NV
Deb, it's easy to fall into that trap. I am constantly battled myself and the urge to try and help. It almost sounds mean spirited! Let's try and keep each other motivated and on task with it! Thanks for the support. Rey 'Steak Dinner' Gallegos
Jun 16, 2007 08:44 AM #4
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