Managing Expectations...is the key to satisfaction & success.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc.,

Learning to manage others expectations, is the key to your success.

Ever met an agent, Who promised the world and can't deliver...Everyone who says they are number one in their market place and can't prove it would be better off saying nothing at all.

I like to go into the world each day and offer my talent, and my heart to accomplish great things for my clients... I underplay my expectations to my clients (but not to myself) I have found it is better to under promise and over deliver...than over-promise and under deliver.

Work 50% harder than your competitors and expect equal results to theirs, you'll never be disappointed in the long run. You will gain insight on what works and learn faster what doesn't work, so you don't waste your time on failures in the future.

Social and business environments are not that different try to meet someone new at each function, and ask them more questions than they ask you. The Art of listening will always give you the edge over...talking.

If you need something done quickly ask someone who is already busy. They have figured out a way to get things done or delegate it to the best person to get it done.

A jack of all trades...is easily distracted, and never finishes the task at hand.

Get to work an hour early...to organize your day without distractions, Stay an hour after you close...that's when the phone rings.

Take on the difficult deals...a challenge is an opportunity in disguise, when you prove you are worthy you'll be asked to contribute more.

Pause each day to daydream...an Epiphany can come from an unscripted moment, you may solve a problem that has been nagging you or catch a glimpses of your future.

Invest in your own Happiness...No one will do it for you.

I was 22 when I got my Real Estate License, and I've been a Realtor for 26 years. This is a profession you can do for more than half your life and still be learning something everyday. Clients and customers have taught me I am not entitled to a monetary success, but hard work earns you loyalty and with that come success.

 

 

 

 

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Rainmaker
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Steve Loynd
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc.,

Gerry...In the word of real estate you have to earn your street Cred...But it can make you the go to guy once you have done the tough ones.

February 09, 2010 03:09 PM
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William Feela
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.
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Steve...I have had many a call early in my career whent he floor agent left early because I was there and I received a call that brought a sale.  Leaving early is not an option.

February 09, 2010 03:15 PM
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Wendy Rulnick
Destin FL Real Estate
Rulnick Realty, Inc.

Steve - Hard work DOES pay off in the long run, sometimes a very long run...  Excellently written post.

February 09, 2010 05:53 PM
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Valerie Osterhoudt
ABR, Cromwell, CT Real Estate ~ 860.883.8889
Johnson Real Estate, Inc.

Steve... This job is NOT a 9 to 5, as I am *SURE* you know.  There is no way I'm going in an hour earlier or staying an hour later... because I'm already doing that.  How about the agents that "Bit off more than they can chew?".  I want to stay away from them.

valerie osterhoudt

February 09, 2010 06:24 PM
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George Souto
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Steve if someone needs to go around saying that they are the best, then they most likely are not.  Those that are the best don't need to say it because others are saying it for them.

February 09, 2010 06:35 PM
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Steve Loynd
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc.,

Wendy, I'm in it for the long run, and have the time to see it through...I'll wait till it pays

February 09, 2010 07:14 PM
Rainmaker
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Steve Loynd
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc.,

Val & George...The less an agent has to toot his own horn, the more likely they don't need too.

February 09, 2010 07:18 PM
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Elyse Berman, PA, ABR, GRI, Realtor
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Realty Associates Florida Properties, Boca Raton, FL

Steve - I submitted an offer to an agent the other night.  He told me he would only be answering the phone for another hour.  It was 5:30.  I have often worked until 11:30 at night with a client, if need be.  It's paid off in the long run. 

I especially liked "A jack of all trades."  That's been one of my favorite lines for as long as I can remember.  The rest of it goes, and master of none.  It's so true.

 

February 09, 2010 08:42 PM
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Terry & Bonnie Westbrook
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Some great advice for any agent either in the business of just thinking about getting a license.

February 09, 2010 10:24 PM
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Jen

Sage advise - when the market in Loon turns (fingers crossed this summer) we will be calling . . . and I will try to call before 5 - make you available for someone else :)

Thanks for the insight on the area - priceless!

February 10, 2010 12:30 PM
Rainmaker
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Steve Loynd
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc.,

Terry & Bonnie, there is no place for part-timers, it's a 7 day a week profession and the starting bell and ending bell only happens at the stock exchange...not in real estate.

February 10, 2010 02:14 PM
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Tammy Lankford
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You know Steve, the agents who work for me that leave at 5:05 or 5:10 make much less money than those that leave at 5:30 or 6:00, I think I'll print this post out and put it on everyone's desk. :)

February 10, 2010 03:44 PM
Rainmaker
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Steve Loynd
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc.,

Tammy, feel free ...but don't send it to my competitors.

February 10, 2010 03:53 PM
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Jane Peters
Connecting you to the L.A. real estate scene
Power Brokers Int'l

The last part of your post is resonating with me as right now I am going through yet another horrific learning experience.  I need to expect that something is going to go wrong and prepare for it in spades.

February 10, 2010 05:31 PM
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Sharon Tara
New Hampshire Home Stager
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Managing expectations and disappointments is a skill developed through experience.  When you start surpassing expectations, you're really in business!

February 12, 2010 06:11 PM
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Claudette Millette
Buyer, Broker - Metrowest Mass
The Buyers' Counsel

Steve:

This is wisely said. It is always best to under promise and over deliver.

February 13, 2010 07:53 AM
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Jay Beckingham
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Taking on difficult deals may be your greatest opportunity to increase your knowledge. to a certain degree, i consider them forced learning experiences after i have accepted the challenge to take them on. unfortunately at times i'm still a bit gunshy and need to know that they have a reasonable chance for success. then again one persons definition of success may vary greatly from another's.

February 14, 2010 06:24 AM
Rainmaker
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Steve Loynd
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc.,

Jay, You have to make lemonade...but it's usually after you discover you got lemons

February 14, 2010 07:27 AM
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Nick T Pappas
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource
Assoc. Broker/Broker ABR, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Huntsville AL

Steve, your points are well taken and so very important...I've tried to live by them all although I'm not sure I work 50% harder than others, it sure seems like it sometimes. 

I live by:  I have found it is better to under promise and over deliver...than over-promise and under deliver.

And:  If you need something done quickly ask someone who is already busy.  This is me in a nut shell.

February 14, 2010 05:08 PM
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Dawn A Fabiszak
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Keller Williams Real Estate ( Denver metro area, Colorado

Steve ~ great and wise advise!  I really like "the managing your disappointments"  Thanks

February 14, 2010 08:55 PM
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