Blame is a Waste of Time

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Blame is a Waste of Time

"All blame is a waste of time.

No matter how much fault you

find with another,

and regardless of how you blame him

it will not change you."

Dr. Wayne Dyer, author

   

As I see it. . . . . . . .

Blame is a waste of time  

Blaming is a negative activity that can make a bad situation become worst. Blaming someone for our circumstances is a complete waste of time, energy and will never resolves the circumstances.   

A person that continually blames others for their circumstances will find that other people will look at that person as the source of the problem. The only people that will take the side of the person doing the blaming are negative people that will create a downward spiral for themelves and the people around them.   

Stuff happens; successful people are solution oriented and they invest their time and energy solutions and positive activities to resolve the circumstances that they find themselves in.   

©2010, Lou Ludwig, Sales and Management Consultant Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author

 

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Glenn Roberts
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Taking corrective action is much more productive than placing blame and requires about the same amount of energy and time.

June 09, 2010 10:59 AM #1
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Donna & Larry Johnson
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I agree! You can have reasons or you can have results but you can't have both!

June 09, 2010 11:00 AM #2
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Laying blame has never changed one thing for me...Moving forward with a lesson and remembering I am ultimately responsible is my mantra.

I like Donna and Larry's quote as well:

"You can have reasons or you can have results, but you can't have both"

Best regards,

 

June 09, 2010 11:07 AM #3
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Hannah Williams
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I think we all tend to fall into this habit ..bad one but easy to do

Hannah

June 09, 2010 11:59 AM #4
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Paul Henderson
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I always put my clients first in any transaction!

The only result in most cases is bitterness and that is not positive!

June 09, 2010 12:08 PM #5
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Adam Malachi
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Excellent post! I totally agree with you! In my opinion blame accomplish nothing!

Thanks for sharing,

Adam

June 09, 2010 12:30 PM #6
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Hi Lou, The blame game is a waste of time.  Get the problem resolved and just move on.

June 09, 2010 01:15 PM #7
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Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
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Great quote!  Especially today where i am dealing with late loans and so much more!   I needed to hear this!

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Nice post with a reminder because when things dont go well in real estate we tend to play the blame game!

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Lou,

Blame is a defense mechanism. It diverts attention from the one responsible. :)

Steve

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