IF YOUR HEART AINT IN IT........WHY ARE YOU DOING IT...?

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Real Estate Broker Owner with People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca BRE LIC #00636943

Think about this for a while. This is rampant wherever you go. In college, people are there that do not want to be there. Some people cant stand their place of employment. Others watch children and put up with it. Some guy answers the phone in a department and hates it.....we see this happening all over the place.....

WHY DON'T YOU  STOP DOING SOMETHING IF YOUR HEART IS NOT IN IT......EVERYONE SUFFERS FOR IT...

But I need the money... I cant find anything else... The benefits are good... This is only temporary......

Okay, lets start with Real Estate agents who are not committed for the right reasons and lets just leave it at that. What are you doing in this business? We all see you and know you are not committed.

How about the teacher who is always wearing a frown, upset and yelling at the students. Grade level varies....perhaps this is not for you and we cannot pretend we do not see you because we do......

Family members, you go along with things and do and say things that are not real or sincere for whatever reason you choose. You keep the gossip and confusion going. You know it, we know it and what is the point? What do you get out of helping or visiting when you hate doing so.

The customer service person who every customer hates and you hate them right back. You cannot wait to say NO and you look for every opportunity not to help all the while saying how sorry you are and is there anything else I can help you with? Why don't you move on because what you are doing is sickening...

Employees.....if you do not support the place of your employment, if you have to be prodded and monitored to get done what anyone who like being there would do, would you please move-on. Oh, you need the job? Well act like you do instead of collecting money under false pretenses.

Employers....don't go anywhere. You too are guilty of putting stress and duress, your lack of leadership skills, direction, motivation, planning and lack of results and dumping them on all those around you. You have a scowl that can turn into a smile if forced and you have all the nice sounding words...but the music of the heart is missing....

Restaurant Servers...cant stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. When you don't like your job or what you are doing, it effects everyone and is totally unproductive. You suffer, the client suffers and the eatery...is at risk.

MY POINT: If you go somewhere, go there with all your heart. If your heart is missing, so are you.........

 If you have something to say that you think is worthy and will make a difference, then speak with all your heart. Stop getting by. It is no good for you or the people around you. Do something about how you interact and perceive your environment and your surroundings will change. Sourpuss in....sourpuss out......Contribution and caring in....contribution and caring comes out.......You choose and whatever you choose...., bet the heart.....it's a sure win

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Richie Alan Naggar Author PEARLS SERIES of books
on LIFE and LOVE plus Real Estate too!
People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca

Lisa.....very valid on "target" points......don't forget the principal of CONTRAST which is to distinguish by comparison. These Realtors, which you describe very well also make us stand out. Their clients say, how come there are never flyer's. I see other homes with well stocked flyer's. Then, the clients who ask to see the listing will comment, where are all the pictures. Do other have pictures and if they do, I want that too. So you see, the bad accents the good and the good chases the bad out of the way.....I remember more than once, people commenting how I am available and either answer my phone or quickly respond. What they were saying is....I am tired of people who do not respond or answer their phones. I want an agent that is available......Lisa, the ones they play by the rules, we rule......the ones that don't, on borrowed time.....thank you for allowing me to expand a thought from your potent comment......Best Lisa.....

September 03, 2010 01:22 PM
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Ryan Case
Pacific Servicing

I think all the part time realtors diluted the market and make it harder for honest Realtors who treat their job as a full time committment. If your heart isn't in it, move on

September 04, 2010 12:57 AM
Rainmaker
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Richie Alan Naggar Author PEARLS SERIES of books
on LIFE and LOVE plus Real Estate too!
People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca

Ryan.....your statement is short, crisp and to the point.......Perhaps this economy will help weed out what you are describing? Thanks for coming by.....

September 04, 2010 09:27 AM
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Nicole Fleming
FC Tucker Emge

I changed my slogan a few weeks ago because I wanted something that described the experience my clients will have with me:  Where Smiles are Genuine & Business is Personal!

I have to maintain my integrity and work for what I believe in and I think everyone should.  I think your post is meaningful and timely.

September 17, 2010 12:48 AM
Rainmaker
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Richie Alan Naggar Author PEARLS SERIES of books
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People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca

Nicole.....you are a good girl. People want realness, honesty, sincerity, courtesy, service, respect, validation, and simple answers. Why anyone would continue to complicate things is a subject to be studied. Remember that if you stay in the moment and respond as prompted (or not prompted) there and then, how can you go wrong? You know Nicole, a long time ago, I stopped being so willful about things. When someone would contact me for a lead, they know and I know I wanted the sale or listing. I found out that what is mine, is mine and when I just do my part, the other part will come. Look into this because it has served me well.......thank you for your most valued comment......with high regards....

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