Everything you've ever dreamed about is right outside your comfort zone.....

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Real Estate Agent with John Aaroe Group BRE #01708344

Everything you've ever dreamed about is right outside your comfort zone.....

Just wanted to share this with all my peeps.

So many times in our lives, present party included, we find ourselves reflecting on how we're not exactly where we thought we would be or dreamed we would be in our lives.

Why is that?

Well, what I am starting to learn is that the true reason is that we need to step outide our comfort zone in order to get there.

After all, if getting to where we wanted to be were that easy, then EVERYONE would be pushing that same easy button, don't you think?

I consider all of my ActiveRain peeps my friends.  YES!, even those of you who have different political opinions.

I honestly love you all and wish the best for you all and your families.

Do the Ralphster one small favor this week.

Do something scary.  Step outside your comfort zone into that scary, dark territory that you know somehow leads to your dreams.

Do one endeavor that you may think to be embarrasing or apprehenisve to you, but that you know deep down is a step towards getting to where you really want to be.

And do it knowing that I've got your back.

Do it, and tell me all about it.

Whether it be cold-calling even though you are so frightened of that, door-knocking even though you are so frightend of that (it's a good idea to door-knock WITH someone by the way), spending those hard-earned dollars on coaching to take you to the next level, approaching someone you have had an estranged relationship with and make a gesture towards mending the relationship, booking that appointment with Jenny Craig to finally get the weight off, or just saying the words "I love you" to someone you have wanted to say it to for a long time.

DO IT!

Come back here and report to me and the rest of your family here on AR and tell us about it. 

We've all got your back.....

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Rainmaker
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Geri Sonkin
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103

I've been living way outside my comfort zone for too long now.  Perhaps something I do here will lead me back to that warm and fuzzy place that feels like home.  Times they are a challenging.

November 04, 2010 10:26 AM
Rainmaker
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Shirley Parks
Broker, 210-414-0966, San Antonio TX Homes
Sands Realty 210-414-0966

Hi Ralph, this is such great advice.  I try to do this from time to time but haven't done it in a while.  I think it's time to do it again!

November 04, 2010 12:13 PM
Rainmaker
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Barbara Hensley
Homes for Sale in Rockwall County, Texas
RE/MAX Properties

Ralph, I have been stepping out of my comfort zone for several weeks now since joining ActiveRain.  Guess what....just about eight weeks into being in ActiveRain I AM GETTING COMFORTABLE...I am loving it and know that this is just the start of great things.  Thanks to ActiveRain members such as you!  Have a great day!

November 09, 2010 06:15 AM
Rainmaker
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Donna Foerster
Metro Denver Real Estate Agent
Cherry Creek Properties, LLC

What an awesome challenge.  I KNOW good things happen when I step outside my comfort zone.  (I'm here after all.)  Like so many of your readers, I need to figure out what my next step is going to be.  I'll be back to let you know.

November 16, 2010 12:35 AM
Rainmaker
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Donna Foerster
Metro Denver Real Estate Agent
Cherry Creek Properties, LLC

OK, I downloaded Firefox today (which I was a bit reluctant to do) because I want to use Scribefire (which is also a bit scary to me).  So that combination of things will be outside my comfort zone.  (Maybe it doesn't seem like a big deal, but it is to me!)

November 16, 2010 06:27 PM
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