WE DONT HAVE TO AGREE.....BUT WE DO NEED TO TALK

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca BRE LIC #636943

Robinson Crusoe is a true story of a man marooned on an Island and for the most part alone and in despair. He needed to un-learn and then learn things to survive. During that process, he came to appreciate the thought of the company of another Human Being

COME HITHER AND LET ME ADORN THEE....

You can drive people toward you or away form you. Yes, you do have that power. if you drive them away, you will miss all of their company and contribution. How does that benefit you..? if you would have them gravitate toward you, then you can share and learn from each other

I WILL SEE YOU WHEN WE MEET

When we post and comment, it is not necessary that we agree....not at all. I have come to respect and admire some people who I interact with that speak-up and risk being known. We both gain from the process..

FIRST TIME FOR EVERYTHING

I learn as I go. The premise is very simple. I have never been here before. I also do not know everything thus necessitating that I journey, seek, and pursue things. some of that is worthy to be shared....

WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE PARTY...?

Manners, courtesies, sensitivities, arguing without offense but for the subject sake is something we are all capable of. What happens every once in a while is that we are tempted to Judge and that leads to anger. Anger is not easily understood and causes others to defend themselves. The real interaction is then lost...Make allowances for that.

EXCUSE MY FAUX-PAS PLEASE....

Also excuse people who are trying to find out things and are sloppy about it. In time they will discover and refine themselves. Know this so that you don't react.

LEND ME YOUR EAR....AND THAT IS SUFFICENT

There are times that I am asked just to listen and not speak. I can do that. there are times that I want to share or that someone wants to share with me...I say come forward. How can I get to know you if we do not come together..?

LET'S GET TOGETHER....OK..?

So, share your thoughts, feelings, ideas, beliefs, concerns, fears and questions and I will do the same. Of course, only do this if you feel safe, and trust the other person enough to do so. Not everyone is worthy of the Pearls of others.....

WHAT THEN...?

Helen Keller, who was deaf, dumb, and blind wanted so much to join our world because hers was not complete. Please look for the best in everyone you meet because the not so best lurks in the shadows and we all have those shadows....

thank you

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Glenn Roberts
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Looking for the best in others will bring out the best in you.

Oct 25, 2010 10:11 AM #1
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Cindy Westfall
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Hi Richie, Very well said and I couldn't agree more. Excellent post!

Oct 25, 2010 10:19 AM #2
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Kristen Wheatley
The Maine Real Estate Network - Auburn, ME
Lewiston/Auburn Maine Real Estate Agent

Great point Richie!  Sometimes it seems that people are just waiting for someone to say something they disagree with so they can jump on it.  Many people need a little more time to get out what they truly mean.  Calm questions can reveal meaning, where as reactions generally just bring more rections.  It can also be easy to forget that there is a "tone of voice" inherent in the written word as well and when we comment or email, we don't always intend the tone that is peceived by the reader.

Oct 25, 2010 10:35 AM #3
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Richie Alan Naggar Author PEARLS SERIES of books
People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca - Riverside, CA
on LIFE and LOVE plus Real Estate too!

Glenn...that is a worthy thing to do and to seek out. In the end, you end up with a real value.....

Cindy...Very good of you to visit and comment...thank you my dear

Kristen...What a profound comment. The value of the post tripled.....When it comes to dealing with people, take your time and make it fine....the most valuable thing in this part of the Universe deserves special attention. Start with the next person you meet. In time, your character will develop into something Unique, wonderful and attractive.....Thank You Kristen..

Oct 25, 2010 10:50 AM #4
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Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Always refining and redefining -- a work in progress.

Oct 25, 2010 08:22 PM #5
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Richie Alan Naggar Author PEARLS SERIES of books
People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca - Riverside, CA
on LIFE and LOVE plus Real Estate too!

Tish...I join you dear lady...

Oct 25, 2010 08:44 PM #6
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Russell Lewis
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Nicely put and I would say that you probably bring something good to any gathering!

Oct 26, 2010 09:10 AM #7
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People first then business! Ran Right Realty Riverside, Ca - Riverside, CA
on LIFE and LOVE plus Real Estate too!

Russell....be advised that to be able to recognize things in others means we possess it in decent amounts ourselves.....I am sure if both of us were put to work on anything, that field would get plowed.....yes? Thank you my friend....best of the day to you

Oct 26, 2010 09:35 AM #8
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