Pay It Forward - A Little hope At McDonalds

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lizette Realty - Lexington KY - Richmond KY

I've read about people doing this and I planned to try it out the next time I did order through the drive-up window. Today was my chance to pay it forward for the folks behind my car.

It looked to be a family of four in the car. As I paid for my meal, I asked the guy at the window if I could pay for the people behind me in line. The thing about this is you won't know of the outcome.

SnowmanThe other day I read a story in the letter to the editor in the Lexington Herald and the letter was from someone where this had been done for them.

Here is what they wrote...

I was waiting in line at McDonald's drive through on Harrodsburg Road last month.

 When I got to the window, the young man told me that the patrons in the car in front of me had paid for my food. 

I  do not know who those people were but the gift I received from them was something I really needed.

In the previous monthes I experienced the loss of my mother, I found out I have lung cancer an have begun chemotherapy.

I have taken many things for granted in my 45 years of life and have been a pessimistic person.

That was one gesture and wave from the people in the car in front of me as they drove off, affected me in more ways than I can say.

To them, I say, "Thank You," because I needed that gesture probabaly more than any in my life.

There are good people in this world and you do not have to know someone for them to impact your life.

Hope is what I needed, and a $4 gesture from the car in front of me from people I did not know,  instilled hope in me. treasure all the people you know and the good people you may not know this season and may God bless YOU!

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Rainmaker
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Peggy S. Harmeyer
RE/MAX Real EstateGroup.com - Altoona, IA
Licensed in the State of Iowa

Lizette,

I am sure you made the day of the family you paid forward!  Thanks for the reminder to remember to do the little things especially this time of the year.  May you have a Happy Holiday!

 

Dec 19, 2010 09:03 PM #6
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Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
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I love it Lizette.  If it happens to be someone in need of financial help, or a loving gesture, or just a friendly wave and smile, what a lovely gift.

Dec 19, 2010 09:05 PM #7
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Donna Bigda
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Lizette - You are wonderful and so is the story you read in the paper.  When you pay it forward to others it is such a feel good moment and you just don't know how it's going to impact the person your've helped.

Dec 19, 2010 09:13 PM #8
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Kevin Nash
Shorewest Realtors, Metro Milwaukee - Germantown, WI
ABR, CSRS

This is a very nice story. It is amazing how little can effect so much. Probably the best $4 ever spent.

Merry Christmas.

Dec 19, 2010 09:27 PM #9
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Reuben Saltzman
Structure Tech Home Inspections - Minneapolis, MN
Minneapolis Home Inspections

How thoughtful; my wife was the recipient of one of these random acts of kindness at a drive-through just a couple weeks ago, and she was quite shocked.  I said "hey, I've heard about that..."

Dec 19, 2010 09:30 PM #10
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Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker/Broker ABR, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
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Lizette, I remember hearing a similar story...and thank you for making another's life a little brighter.  This is definitely on my list of things to do before the end of the year.

Dec 19, 2010 09:37 PM #11
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Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland
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Lizette, Thank you for sharing this touching story! And thanks for reminding us of the good you are doing.

Margaret

Dec 19, 2010 10:01 PM #12
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Lori Cain
Chinowth & Cohen Realtors - Tulsa, OK
Midtown Tulsa Real Estate Top Producer

Aw, what an awesome story. I've done that before, and even if you don't know the outcome, it just feels GOOD!

Merry Christmas to you!!

Dec 19, 2010 10:23 PM #13
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Suzanne Sands
Pavao Real Estate - Somerset, MA
Somerset MA Real Estate

Hi Lizette,

I love this story, I'm sure you made someones day a whole lot brighter! :)

Dec 19, 2010 10:46 PM #14
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John Alesi
Century 21 Award - Mission Viejo, CA
(Orange County California Real Estate)

Thanks for the reminder to pay it forward. May you and your family have a blessed Christmas and happy new year!

Dec 19, 2010 10:46 PM #15
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Valerie Zinger
House Proud Ottawa-Ontario-Canada - Ottawa, ON
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Lizette:  I did this once but it was my husband in the car behind me.  It surprised him a lot.  Thank you for reminding me to widen the circle to include strangers.  This is a nice and easy Play it Forward. 

Dec 20, 2010 06:03 AM #16
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Erby Crofutt
B4 U Close Home Inspections&Radon Testing (www.b4uclose.com) - Lexington, KY
The Central Kentucky Home Inspector, Lexington KY

You're likely just gonna blow the five or ten bucks on something you don't really need anyway.  What a great way to make a difference in someone else's life with it instead. 

The joy you got was well worth the few dollars it cost you, and the joy you gave was way greater than the few dollars!

Dec 20, 2010 08:00 AM #17
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Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Lexington KY - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty,Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes -

Thanks for all the comments! This is an easy and inexpensive way to pay it forward. Try it today and come back to let us know what you did.

Dec 20, 2010 11:05 AM #18
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Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector

Lizette,

We had that happen one time at Starbucks. Was quite a surprise. We did the same and paid for the people right behind us.

Dec 20, 2010 11:31 AM #19
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Roseanne Campagna
John L. Scott RE Maple Valley, WA - Maple Valley, WA
Kent/DesMoines/Blk Diamond/Renton/Maple Valley, WA

I'm sitting here reading these comments in response to your wonderful post about generosity with the element of surprise, and thinking of other ways to do spontaneous acts of kindness.

Here's one for the list:

Free Hugs

 

 

Dec 20, 2010 02:34 PM #20
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Erby Crofutt
B4 U Close Home Inspections&Radon Testing (www.b4uclose.com) - Lexington, KY
The Central Kentucky Home Inspector, Lexington KY

They were sure getting into the "Free Hugs" until the "Man" came along and prohibited them.  Bummer.

Dec 21, 2010 01:22 PM #21
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Connie King
CK Staging & Design, Sevierville, TN - Sevierville, TN

Wonderful.     I  must try this too.    It's a small thing to do but if everyone would pay it forward,  no matter how small,  what an impact we could all have.   

 

Dec 21, 2010 08:55 PM #22
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Jackie Connelly-Fornuff
Douglas Elliman Real Estate in Babylon NY - Babylon, NY
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Hi Lizette, A small gesture like that comes from someone that has a huge heart! Such a wonderful story and thank you for sharing it.

Dec 22, 2010 06:31 AM #23
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Kathleen Daniels
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
San Jose Homes for Sale - Probate Specialist

Lizette, We just never know how great the impact a small act of kindness will have on the receiver. You say “you won’t know the outcome.” Maybe not directly … but we know it will be good!

Dec 22, 2010 09:46 AM #24
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Steve Baklaich
RE/MAX Results St Cloud Mn real estate - Saint Cloud, MN

Awe Lizette this is a wonderful story, and a nice thing you did. I bet those folks can't stop talking about the very nice lady who bought their lunch!

Dec 22, 2010 03:33 PM #25
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