Your Blog Post: A One Night Stand or Marriage Material?

Real Estate Broker/Owner with Star View Real Estate CO: II100035296

Cameron & Emily Does your blog post represent a one night stand or marriage material?  In other words, does it have long term potential?   Over the last couple of days, we've considered the importance of catchy titles and personality.  Thank you to everyone that has given me wonderful feedback and food for thought.

Ultimately, we have to decide, BEFORE we dress up our blog post and send it out to into the world, what our goal ultimately is.  Do we want our dear little post to shine in the spotlight for the one day?  Or do we want our post to have some long term potential? 

I'll be honest.... the racy, sexy little post will attract attention.  It's fun.  It may be the life of the Active Rain Party for a day or so.  While the other posts which are full of wisdom and insight are much more modest in comparison.  The more modest posts may not attract lots of comments.   Yet in the long run, the more modest types of posts have qualities that WILL cause them to be appreciated in the long run.     

Overtime, I've figured out that not all of my posts that I care about will be appreciated by the Active Rain network.   For example, posts about things that are highly local in nature - local politics, places and art generally will NOT generate a lot of comments.  Every so often, I can figure out how to put a slant on it that will make the post a little more universally appealing.  A great example of this is my post earlier this week about the The Big Sweep - the giant broom and dust pan that I was not allowed to fondle or caress, according to the plaque.  That post was an exception.   

Now here is the good news for the "modest" posts:  The other day I discovered the "Statistics" button/link on the left hand side of my Active Rain Home page.  Not only did the information displayed take me down memory lane, the numbers document the difference between the one night stand posts and the other posts.   For each post of mine, the statistics page showed:  

  • How many comments
  • The number of views
  • How many clicks (Clicks are the number of times that someone actually opened the post)

I felt like a proud mama as I saw that the number of comments do not correlate to the number of actual clicks on the post over time.  (It's also very exciting to see how much more traffic Active Rain is generating now compared to 2007 and 2008.)   

I have no clue which posts that my great buyers and seller's that I acquired through Active Rain actually read.  Regardless, I am exceedingly proud to say that of my top three of my four tops posts, from a click standpoint, were posts that meant something to me.  None of my top long term posts were "featured posts."    

1)      I am most pleased to see that a post about about a local artist's work that I profiled was in the top three. This post has had roughly 1,400 clicks even though it only received 10 comments.

2)  This post discussed a listing of mine.  The main topic was paint colors.  It has had over 4,000 clicks.

3)  I'm not exactly sure why this one has generated 1,900 views, but it has.  Maybe pictures of the Brazos River are in short supply????  I did risk my life taking the pictures.      

On the other hand, my fun posts that represented the "one night's stands" received less than 450 total clicks combined over the last few years even though they had the highest number of comments.   (For any long timer's that might be reading this - my infamous porta-potty post has displayed longevity with over 900 clicks! summarize:  1) Figure out what you are trying to accomplish when you write a post.  Short term or long term success?  2)  Be yourself.  Let your personality shine through.  3)  Use catchy yet descriptive titles. Cam & Emily   

If you have written about something that is important to you, remember that the number of comments you receive DOES NOT reflect the long term value of your post. 

Thanks for reading this and I will see you around in the Rain. 


Note:  Photos are of Cameron, my grandson and Emily, my Dad's blue heeler.  I think they have long term potential. 





written and posted by

Sondra Meyer CPA/Real Estate Broker

Star View Ranch, Real Estate & Financial Advisory Services



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Mahesh Mike Patel
Call Me And Consider It Done!
First Team Real Estate

Nice post Sondra. Makes a lot of sense. I wonder what the Aactive rain views and clicks are...?

February 23, 2011 10:36 PM
Gary Woltal
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Keller Williams Realty

Very well written post Sondra. Congratulations on your feature. I think it all has to do with Emily and Cameron myself <smile>

February 23, 2011 10:51 PM
Gary & Melynda Wolter
Wolter Team Realtors, CRS 319-350-7901
Iowa Realty

Sometimes we are in the mood for a "quicky." Its all about what you have to say that day right?

February 24, 2011 01:00 AM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA
Gallagher & Lindsey, Alameda, California


I had forgotten about the statistics.  Thanks for the reminder and the cleaver post. 

February 24, 2011 01:22 AM
Anthony Daniels
SF Bay Area REO Specialist
Coldwell Banker

Gotta love Australian Cattle Dogs for their high coolness factor.  English bulldogs and Jack Russells too.

February 24, 2011 02:20 AM
Brandon & Grace Yee
Lake Tahoe Real Estate
Chase International

Hi Sondra,

OMG, your grandson is a CUTIE!!  I can not believe that is your grandson, I thought that was your son.  You look great for a grandma.  You go Girl!

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and suggestions.  BTW, clever title.

Cheers from Lake Tahoe,
~Grace Yee

February 24, 2011 03:15 AM
Fernando Herboso - Broker for Maxus Realty Group
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA
Maxus Realty Group - Broker 301-246-0001

There is a difference who you are writing for. . I have posts with thousands of clicks with one or two comments. .I figured, I have a better chance to monetize my blog by writing for the public and not other agents.

February 24, 2011 06:37 AM
Sondra Meyer
Colorado Horse Property Specialist
Star View Real Estate

Good morning everyone!  Thank you for all of your comments!    I especially love the comments about Cam and Emily as they are dear to my heart.  I agree with what each of you has said.   I hope you all don't mind, but time is limited and I'm really interested in seeing what you have written, so I'm going to leave this reply comment short.  See you in the Rain. 

February 24, 2011 06:46 AM
Ed Silva
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally
RE/MAX Professionals, CT 203-206-0754

We have to recognize which audience is more important. The audience that comments, which is our AR peers, may send us a referral if we are consistent in our content. The audience that clicks through to read is the audience that will call us for help in buying and selling. Comments are nice, but the business is what keeps us going.

February 24, 2011 06:48 AM
Anonymous #21


The "purely-business" posts do get read much more but I think readers also like a party post now and again.  Love your title!

February 24, 2011 09:47 AM
Bryan Robertson
Broker, Author, Speaker
Catarra Real Estate, Inc

I've noticed the exact same thing.  It used to bug me that articles I wrote for AR members only would sometimes get a few views and articles posted to the public/hyperlocal would get hundreds.  These days I realize that the public posts are the ones that count.

February 24, 2011 09:52 AM
Karen Feltman
Relocation Specialist
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA Skogman Realty
Sometimes we just need to know why we are writing. If it is directed at the members only, it is a different spin and appeal.
February 24, 2011 10:23 AM
Aaron Seekford
Arlington VA Homes 703-836-6116
Arlington Realty, Inc.

Great tips. My best post to date appeared to be a racist post, but was really about iPhones. Lure them in with the titles!

February 24, 2011 10:45 AM
Richard Bazinet /MBA, CRS, ABR
Phoenix Scottsdale Real Estate
Realty ONE Group

Hi Sondra, I enjoyed reading your post. Very good advice. I think too many people try to hard at writing their posts. But you are right - be yourself and think about the message or information you want to convey with catchy or interesting titles.

Great pics by the way.

February 24, 2011 10:50 AM
Maya Swamy
Ph.D. Long Beach, CA -
Funds Available

Thank you for changing my viewpoint about blogging - I was getting upset at how much silence I generated

February 25, 2011 09:24 PM
Mimi Foster
Realtor - Colorado Springs
Managing Broker EPIC Real Estate Group

What a great post!  And what an absolutely clever way of portraying it!  And I am positively blown away by what an incredibly small world it is!  I am so excited to see your home one of these days, and tell you what I remember about what it used to be like.  My client bought it, fixed it, and then had a baby and they moved to a larger house.  But you got a great one, and I love the way your write!

March 28, 2011 11:20 PM
Chandler Real Estate Liz Harris, MBA
Liz Harris Realty

Love the title of the post... amazing how much attention a title can draw!

November 23, 2011 11:52 PM
Louise Thaxton
Military Mtg Specialist - 866-960-9115 VA FHA USDA NMLS 69996
Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp Louisiana NMLS#2289

I will have to check out the "statistics" info!  I glance at it occasionally but not regularly - thanks for a great post and cute grandson!

November 24, 2011 12:07 AM
Larry & Jacque Ficek
Realtors - Wasilla Alaska
Alaska Dream Makers

Hi there Sondra, we liked this one so much the first time that we snuck in a reblog tonight to dust it off.

Jacque & Larry

November 24, 2011 12:10 AM
Karen Crowson
Livermore Wine Country Homes
Alain Pinel Realtors, Pleasanton, CA
And yet, a blog without a lot of hits brought me a new seller client. conversion is the key.
November 24, 2011 12:10 AM
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