Mother's Day Just the Same

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with 3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Frisco TX Real Estate Co. 9001154

Happy Mother's Day to all mothers out there. A BIG SHOUT OUT to you for what you do, especially for your family and children.

This year, my Mother's Day salute, I'd want to remember Mother's Day isn't always a happy day for ALL MOTHERS. The pain and the grief I too, once experienced.

I know my mother will be thinking about her mother on Mother's Day. My mother lost her mom on Mother's Day unexpectedly several years ago. I think my mother has never gotten over it. I guess no one will, especially when my mother is such a loving person.

As for me, Mother's Day didn't really hit me until Saturday - the day before. While I am a mother of a healthy, active 3 1/2 year old, I can't help but to realize how much emotions went through me on Saturday thinking about the little 8-week old in my tummy that never made it. Yes, I miscarried earlier this year.

It took me a while to recover but I finally came around to it when I realized that every day of our lives is numbered. Even for the 8-week old in a womb.

God sends missions in life and when He thinks your mission is accomplished, He will take you home.

My baby - although I can never understand why - is accomplished at a tender 8-week in a womb.

As it was made clear - perhaps this little baby's mission has completed at 8 weeks old in his mummy's tummy. It's hard to comprehend and I always catch myself trying to understand God's "whys".... I may never understand Why but I know I have to accept. It's been sometime now and I'm doing better every day. Yes, I still have my moments. And the moments seem easier to pass by. With other things in my life right now, I haven't quite had a moment in a while. But the moment came back today - the day before Mother's Day.

 

Just the Same...

I never got to hold you & bounce you on my lap, I never got to read to you or watch you as you nap. You slipped away so quickly, before I said your name. And yet I want the world to know I loved you just the same...

Anne Peterson

I'm also taking a full Sunday off from here because I'm going to need some time to soak in my moment again on Mother's Day. So, this is an early Mother's Day good wishes for all the mothers out there. Your gift is priceless.

 

Scripture of the Week:

God can do anything you know - far more than you could even imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us.

Ephesians 3:20

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Rainmaker
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Sally K. & David L. Hanson
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It is difficult sometimes to know that there is a reason for everything....and know that there is another child in your future...who is whole, healthy and complete and will bring your family joyous memories for a lifetime.

May 08, 2011 05:25 AM #12
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Barbara Todaro
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Good morning, Loreena....Happy Mothers' Day and you enjoy every minute of today with Meng, Mike and your family members.....enjoy the moment.

May 08, 2011 05:44 AM #13
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Dick and Dixie Sells
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Loreena, Happy Mothers Day. Some things are just not for us to understand fully, but your faith carries you thru. Have a good day today and thank you for sharing. Take care.

Dick and Dixie

May 08, 2011 06:16 AM #14
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Ginny Gorman
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Loreena, may you have a blessed and wonderful Mother's Day with your family...as difficult as this year has been personally for you...what a strong woman you are...enjoy the day with yours.

May 08, 2011 07:20 AM #15
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Jackie Connelly-Fornuff
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Century 21 AA Lindenhurst NY

Hi Loreena, Happy Mother's Day!

I know what you went through. Don't expect too much from yourself. Work through it like you have been and everything will be all ok.

Enjoy today with your family. You deserve it!

May 08, 2011 07:51 AM #16
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Barbara Hensley
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Loreena - I wanted to stop by and wish you a Happy Mother's Day - the best is yet to come for you with your young child.  I know you will treasure every day, every minute with this precious three year old child. 

I am sorry for your loss and know from experience how that must feel.  God does have a reason...and I am sure He will lead you through the pain.  

I am looking forward to meeting you at Rain Camp.  HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!

May 08, 2011 08:37 AM #17
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Jerry Newman
Green Home Realty, 210-789-4216,www.Selling-SanAntonioHomes.com - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Good Morning Loreena, You suffered a great loss with your child, but God will always be there to see you through it all. We may not always understand, but I am sure your faith will help through those difficult times.

God Bless You and Happy Mother's Day!!!

May 08, 2011 09:58 AM #18
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Mike Yeo
3:16 team REALTY - Frisco, TX

God works in mysterous way. His way and timing is always perfect and better than our even in events that we do not understand. Love you.

May 08, 2011 10:00 AM #19
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Cheryl Ritchie
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Southern Maryland 301-980-7566

I hope you have a very special Mother's Day, Loreena. What a moving post!

May 08, 2011 10:02 AM #20
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Anthony Stokes-Pereira
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Nanuet, NY
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Happy mothers day to you, have a wonderful day with your family.

May 08, 2011 10:19 AM #21
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Gary Woltal
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Happy Mother's Day to YOU Loreena and thanks for telling of the very personal stories of you and your Mom.

May 08, 2011 10:27 AM #22
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Elizabeth Byrne
Keller Williams Realty - Arlington, VA
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Loreena, happy Mother's Day to you. Thank you for sharing such a personal story - very moving. Have an amazing day with your adorable son and the rest of your family.

May 08, 2011 11:17 AM #23
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Elyse Berman, PA, ABR, GRI, Realtor
Realty Associates Florida Properties, Boca Raton, FL - Boca Raton, FL
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Loreena,  Happy Mothers Day!  I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I truly believe when things like this happen there is a reason.  Enjoy your beautiful son and your family today. 

May 08, 2011 03:16 PM #24
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Paula McDonald
Chevaux Group, PLLC - The Woodlands, TX
CHEVAUX Group ~ The Woodlands, TX 936-203-0279

Happy Mother's Day Loreena.  Hoping you have a lovely day.

May 08, 2011 04:30 PM #25
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William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Happy Mother's Day Loreena!

I wish I had more to say.

Bill

May 08, 2011 05:15 PM #26
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Maria Morton
BHG Real Estate - Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
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Loreena, acceptance is easier than understanding although acceptance is sometimes very difficult. My wish for you this Mother's Day is that you feel lighter by the day's end. God Bless.

May 08, 2011 07:18 PM #27
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Tricia Hoffmann
Your Home Free - Highland Village, TX

Loreena,

Thanks for the thoughtful post.  Today is my due date and while this was honestly just another day in which I was a mother to a cranky 20 month old, a talkative six year old, laundry folder, tooshie wiper, lunch maker, it makes me realize how much I need God to keep me centered.  Take care of yourself :)

May 08, 2011 10:39 PM #28
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Phil Leng
Keller Williams Eastside Market Center - Kirkland, WA
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Hi Loreena,

Why do so many of your posts bring a tear to my eye?

I very much enjoyed your husband's tribute to you yesterday. (I am pretty sure it was him)

Thanks

PHil

May 09, 2011 05:15 AM #29
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Faye Taylor
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Our hearts go out to you.

May 10, 2011 02:40 PM #30
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Loreena, just catching up with you, so sorry to be late.  I know and you KNOW that one day you will see that baby, so we have that hope and knowledge.  And in Psalm 139 where it talks about us being fearfully and wonderfully made, it also says that EVERY day of our lives was written before it came to be.  So you can also rest assured that every day of those eight weeks counted for something!

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