Trust – A Fundamental of Life

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Trust – A Fundamental of Life

When I think of trust the first thing that comes to mind is Trust in God.

As a child growing up I feared God because I did not know or understand who, or what, God is. I was shuttled off to Sunday school every week with my bible in hand however I did not truly get to know God or understand God until I was in my 30’s.

I also did not understand Trust. I did not trust my parents to protect me because they didn't. That’s right – I said my parents did not protect me. If our Trust is shaped by our environment, and I believe that is mostly true, then it is understandable that I grew up trusting no one – not even myself.

One of the most basic and fundamental aspects of Trust in life is that children have a right to to be loved and protected by their parents. When parents abuse their children it leaves wounds that can, and often do, heal over time. However the scars remain for life.

Abuse can build strength and character. The scars of abuse can create a springboard for who we decide we want to be in life. We can choose to repeat the pattern or we can choose to break the mold. Thankfully, I chose Love. I chose to be something different than the environment if grew up in.

I've learned the Truth about life and in so doing, learned to trust myself as an extension of God. I've learned to Trust life and trust that God has a plan. This does not mean that I necessarily understand or agree with all the things that cause me pain and sadness. What this means is that I have learned to acceptit is what it is.

It’s only in my acceptance of what is that I can make a difference in the world.

Trust – a Fundamental of My Life - Trust starts with me and ends with me.

  • I trust my needs will be met
  • I trust that if I ask – it will be given.
  • I trust that my faith in life and belief in God will carry me through challenges and adversity.
  • I trust myself and my inner-knowing – that inner guidance that tells me when something is aligned with Truth and when it is not.

Do I trust others? Yes. I trust they will do the right thing. I trust they are honest and fair. I trust they are doing the best they can.

Does others doing their best fall short for me? Yes. What helps me accept disappointment in others is deferring to the highest place of knowing they are doing the best they can.

Do I accept this with a loving, trusting and understanding heart? I do as best as I can. I strive to be better each day and be a beacon of light for others to see that they can Trust when they believe. It starts with them and ends with them too! We have a choice.

I know how much Trust my clients put in me. I do not take their trust lightly or for granted. Trust flows in both directions when dealing with people in all relationships. When people prove to me that I cannot trust them … the relationship dies with my Trust. For me, without Trust, I have nothing at all. Life is simply too sweet and precious a gift to spend waste time with people who cannot be trusted.

Forgiveness is what allows me to carry on and continue to Trust myself and others despite how others may disappoint me.

Trust = Love. I choose Love as a fundamental of my life.

What is your Truth Regarding Trust?

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Anna, Thank you.  I pondered how deep I wanted to go with this.  On the heels of our most recent trust issues here in the Rain I decided that going deep and getting real was the rigth thing and the right time.

Cindy, It is a choice.  We can be angry or think we are a victim ... that does not foster love and happiness. Thank you.

January 15, 2012 04:54 PM
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Joan,  Thank you.  This challenge brought up a lot of emotion ... as does reading these comments. My heart does trust.  Along with that comes disappointment along life's path. 

Peggy,  Thank you.  When people break my trust it does cause me to reach to a higher place ... while I may be disappointed even angry at times ... I am ultimately stronger for it. 

Jeanean,  I tend to beat myself up a lot.  Forgiveness of myself first creates a natural and automatic forgiveness of others.  It frees my sould to let love lead the way.  Thank you for your comment.

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Great post and you touched on all points. I trust but verify, it is not that I distrust because I tend I think to trust too much

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Kathleen:  Overcoming a difficult childhood does make a person stronger, wiser and as you have gone one step further to avoid repeating the same mistakes, conscious and caring.  

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Charles, Thank you.  I believe I am verifying as a move along in a relationship.  As I start to see red flags I question more.  I'd like to believe that discovering I have been lied to gets easier as I get older. It does not. I put myself out there - some falls are simply harder than others.  However, I always bounce back.  <<Smile>>

Jane,  Giving birth to my son was a living changing moment in more ways than having a baby.  I suddenly learned what unconditional love meant.  We have a great relationship today ... built not only on love but genuine trust knowing I will always love him ... no matter what.  Thank you for your comment. 

 

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