Are you part of the problem, or part of the solution?

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Real Estate Agent with Pine Knoll Shores Realty 252-422-9000 NC 166249

 

Are you part of the problem, or part of the solution? 

 

Sometimes things happen that you just can’t tolerate. 

A program that means a lot to me and that impacts some of the most important people in my life was recently discontinued.  The people managing it all resigned at once.  I ranted.  I raved.  I blamed.  Finally, in a moment of sanity, I realized that this was a door opening that I was destined to walk through. 

“But I’m too busy.  I will have to give up some other important things.  I’m not good at this.  There are others who would be so much better.  Let them do it.

Sigh.  Sometimes you just have to step up.

I’ve taken the first step.  I’ve committed to stepping up and giving my best to a program that has given much to me and my family.  I’ve announced my willingness and I’m putting together a team.  We may not be the best, but we will be part of the solution.

 -The world will not be destroyed by those who do evil but by those who watch them without doing anything.  - Albert Einstein

 


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Christine Donovan
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Marian - I think this is the problem for many things these days.  Too many don't want to get involved.

Mar 31, 2012 09:01 PM #23
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Hi Marian, I agree.  Glad to see you stepped up!  We all should.

Apr 01, 2012 06:30 AM #24
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Attitude is everything since that is really the only thing we can truly control and yours is the perfect example of ... "if someone gives you lemons, make lemonade!"  Great post!

Apr 01, 2012 06:48 AM #25
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Opportunity always presents itself in strange ways ....

Apr 01, 2012 07:03 AM #26
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Marian:  I have always liked your spunk.  Hearing about many of the things you have been through... I have grown to admire you.  I love your attitude in this blog post.  And... bless her departed soul... I think my mother would have really, really liked you.  As you probably remember, her name was also Marian.

Have a great Sunday...

Apr 01, 2012 07:10 AM #27
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Melissa Zavala
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Sounds like a good idea. Instead of brooding about what was and was not, why not do something about it? Cool.

Apr 01, 2012 07:23 AM #28
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I think you know just how much I admire you..... If not, Hopefully you do now :0)  I'm so proud of you for jumping in and being part of the solution!  It means a lot to all of us involved!  I will help out with this new project as much as I possibly can... IT will be wonderful with you in the lead.

Apr 01, 2012 08:11 AM #29
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Joetta Fort
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Before you stepped up, did you know why everyone resigned at once?  

Apr 01, 2012 08:46 AM #30
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Rachel Tipton
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"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

The courage to change the things I can,

And the wisdom to know the difference."

Kudos to you Marian for taking the high road towards the solution! Best to you!

Apr 01, 2012 09:44 AM #31
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Dear Marian,

Sometimes, if you do not do it, it won't get done. Good thing you are able to do something about a cause dear to your heart.

Apr 01, 2012 10:05 AM #32
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Nothing happens unless action begins, so with you taking action another action will happen, won't it? Good luck in your action plans to create a solution to a challenge.

Apr 01, 2012 10:32 AM #33
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Marian, congratulations on your commitment to step and be part of the solution.  Its always important to recognize the opportunities in life.

Apr 01, 2012 11:15 AM #34
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Hi Marian,

Good for you! I really believe that finding our true purpose and some of our biggest blessings in life are disguised as disappointments, failures and frustrations.

I hope that you had a wonderful weekend & that the upcoming week brings you nothing but happiness

Gina

Apr 01, 2012 11:37 AM #35
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Einstein was right, about so many things, some not involving the theory of relativity. Sage advice.

Apr 01, 2012 02:06 PM #36
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Good for you, Marian. I heard a leader say that if you have negative comments and concerns, come up with options and ideas on how the problems could be changed or solved. You're doing just that.

 

Nancy Middleton, Realtor, CRS, ePRO, GRI, CDPE - Keller Williams Realty, Lake Minnetonka, MN
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Apr 01, 2012 02:40 PM #37
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Been there.  I also have been known to tell people if they do not like how I am doing something they are welcome to do it their way themselves.  

Apr 01, 2012 06:27 PM #38
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Marian:

This program must mean a lot to you.  Good for you for realizing that is you don't continue the program not one else will.  Good luck to you and your team and I hope you are successful.

Apr 01, 2012 08:05 PM #39
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Marian, spoken like a true leader. I wish you success in whatever the endeavor is! 

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Hi Marian,

The quote you selected for the bottom epitomizes the purpose you have in taking action. Very inspiring!

 

~Jack

Apr 02, 2012 10:00 AM #41
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Great attitude! More people need to evaluate their roles in different situations, if you're not helping, you're likely hindering. 

Apr 07, 2012 06:40 AM #42
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