Part Six of My Story: Cleveland-NYC-Cleveland

By
Home Stager with Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092

Abe was on a "high" over the next few months..........the presentation he did for the group of students and looking forward to an "encore performance" in Florida in the spring, seemed to bring new life into his soul...........unfortunately, not into his body.

Several times on our visits, he would go through his material, editing some things, adding something new that he thought the next group of students might enjoy and learn from........  It brought me so much joy watching the "master of lighting" so enthused about wanting to share his knowledge.

Our late night phone calls became more frequent and lasted much longer............Abe wasn't sleeping much............I knew why, he blamed it on his medication.  The calls were much different now.........I talked, he listened............he asked questions, I answered.  One comment he made sticks with me to today............"I like the rhythm you brought into my life".................interesting to say the least.  Later I found out he said the same thing to LaVerne many years ago, shortly after she started working with him in his office.

LaVerne is still running his office and trying to spend more time at the apartment with Abe.  Donna's visits to New York become more frequent.  One night when I was visiting he said "you look tired, why don't you just stay here tonight"...............I stayed.  Neither of us talked, we both listened..........to the silence.........but so much was being said.....................

"Are you enjoying the City all decorated for Christmas?"................"It's one of my favorite things about the City Abe"....................."Mine too, and I'm a Jewish boy, wish I could get out there to see it"............."Close your eyes Abe, you'll see it".

HAPPY NEW YEAR, 1997

"I thought I'd stop over on Tuesday for a visit"...................."You've been working hard, stay home and relax on your day off"................."You sure?"..............."I'm sure, maybe next week".  We had this same conversation for several months.

April 24, 1997

"Roger, it's Donna.................."

The day a personal "light" in my life was extinguished.

April 28, 1997

At 10 o'clock p.m. the lights at Rockefeller Center and the Empire State Building were turned off for one hour in honor of Abe Feder.

  

Abe Feder, Master of Lighting in All Its Forms, Dies at 87 ...

 

 

My Story: Cleveland-NYC-Cleveland 

Part Two of My Story: Cleveland-NYC-Cleveland 

Part Three of My Story: Cleveland-NYC-Cleveland

Part Four of My Story: Cleveland-NYC-Cleveland

Part Five of My Story: Cleveland-NYC-Cleveland 

close

This entry hasn't been re-blogged:

Re-Blogged By Re-Blogged At
Topic:
ActiveRain Community
Groups:
"Whacked"!!!
Bartender, Make it a Double
Take It Off In The Rain
Stager's Coffee Clutch
Addicted to Active Rain
Tags:
real estate agents
home stagers
interior decorators

Anonymous
Post a Comment
Spam prevention

Accessibility option: listen to a question and answer it!

To submit the form,
drag the cloud to the circle on the side.

Type below the answer to what you hear. Numbers or words, lowercase:

Spam prevention

Accessibility option: listen to a question and answer it!

To submit the form,
drag the cat to the circle on the side.

Type below the answer to what you hear. Numbers or words, lowercase:

Show All Comments
Rainer
250,946
Anna Dovger
Add Value Home Staging LLC, 281-704-6607 - The Woodlands, TX
Home Staging -The Woodlands, TX

I din't know that Abe was most famous lighting designer in the Broadway history. I enjoyed your story very much.

April 18, 2012 06:36 AM #9
Ambassador
830,068
John McCormack
Albuquerque Homes Realty * www.AlbuquerqueHomes.com - Albuquerque, NM
AlbuquerqueHomes.com

Rog -

I think you're on to something here.  A new life calling perhaps? 

The Q Man

April 18, 2012 07:11 AM #10
Rainmaker
1,008,429
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Roger. I don't really have words for what I am feeling. Your voice is so strong and so clear and I'm sure Abe flourished in your light as much as you did in his. Loss never goes away, and I am sorry for yours.

April 18, 2012 08:02 AM #11
Ambassador
985,429
Craig Rutman
Helping people in transition - Cary, NC
Raleigh, Cary, Apex area Realtor

This story could be a screenplay for a blockbuster movie. It has it all....

April 18, 2012 08:54 AM #12
Rainmaker
1,207,726
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin
Prado & Kramer Real Estate, St. George, UT 435.632.9374 - Saint George, UT
Your Southern Utah Residential Real Estate Agent

His light still shines within you Roger, that is clear my friend.

April 18, 2012 09:42 AM #13
Rainmaker
1,392,526
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Thanks James, that is such a lovely compliment.  It was a sad story, but we all knew the end was coming......but there is a Part Seven.

Glad you enjoyed the series Mike, thanks so much.

You're the best BARFF, you've done this one before, thanks.

That was such an amazing compliment coming from Abe, and yours is also quite touching Dorie, thanks so much.

Thanks Larry and Sheila, the memories will be with me forever.

Probably never Clint, I wouldn't know where to begin.  Thank you sir.

My pleasure Miss Joni, thank you for reading it.  You know I've got more stories.

Wow, thanks Joanna, one more to go and it's over.  I appreciate your kind words.

Yes he was Anna, very early on in his career, then he moved on to much bigger projects.  Thank you.

Maybe I need a new "life" Q Man.....................thank you kind sir.

This was a tough one to write the first time around Sheila, and just as moving to me now.  He cerainly did make me feel appreciated, there was never any question there.  I have so many wonderful memories to hang on to though.  Thanks so much........................

You're much too kind Craig...............thank you!

What a lovely thing to say Wanda, much appreciated!

.

April 18, 2012 09:55 AM #14
Rainmaker
574,688
Janis Borgueta
Key Properties of the Hudson Valley ~ 845-527-7115 - Newburgh, NY
LIC R.E Salesperson - Homes for Sale Newburgh NY

Roger ~~ I said it before... it is a screenplay,, and it is just so cool that you were able to know such a man.. and he was lucky to have known you.

BTW ~~ I thought  you said it was seven parts? or is that the chapter that tells us you were found? and it will be a best seller...???

April 18, 2012 11:31 AM #15
Rainmaker
1,392,526
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Thanks Janis, glad you enjoyed the series.  There is a Part Seven and I will be posting it tomorrow.  It sort of wraps everything up nicely.  Hope you're not too disappointed, I wasn't "found" and there is no "best seller"............but such a nice thought.

April 18, 2012 11:37 AM #16
Rainmaker
574,688
Janis Borgueta
Key Properties of the Hudson Valley ~ 845-527-7115 - Newburgh, NY
LIC R.E Salesperson - Homes for Sale Newburgh NY

I'll be your agent!!  now...  if i only knew how to get something published...LOL

April 18, 2012 02:32 PM #17
Rainmaker
993,297
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

I think when you first ran this series is when I first starting reading your blog.  Your time with Abe is something not many experience.  I'm so glad you shared it again!

April 18, 2012 04:01 PM #18
Rainmaker
1,392,526
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Well get busy Janis................LOL.

The most amazing thing about my friendship with Abe is the fact that we met once when they came in for dinner, and the next time I saw him or talked to him was when he was in the hospital and asked to see me.  I'm glad you enjoyed the series Sharon..............thanks for being supportive again.

April 18, 2012 04:21 PM #19
Rainmaker
860,158
Donna Foerster
Cherry Creek Properties, LLC - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Agent

Darn it, I forgot the tissue box!  What a moving story, Roger.  I hope it ends on a happy note.  Still sitting on the edge of my seat.

April 18, 2012 05:44 PM #20
Rainmaker
1,345,302
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
Keller Williams 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Realtors - Luxury - Short Sale - CDPE, REDS

A fitting memorial for someone who lit the way for others.

April 18, 2012 07:47 PM #21
Ambassador
1,162,952
Tammie White
Benchmark Realty, LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.TWRealtyGroup.net - Franklin, TN
TW Realty Group, Franklin TN, South of Nashville

It sounds like Abe had an incredible life and how fitting he was honored in this way. He was also fortunate to have you in his life.

April 18, 2012 08:14 PM #22
Rainmaker
1,372,718
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Coldwell Banker Stuart & Watts Real Estate - Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV Real Estate, Greenbrier County

Roger, my that was a great story, but alas a sad ending.  You truly brought light and sunshine into Abe's life and being such a great friend. What more could one ask.  God bless you Roger for being you!

April 18, 2012 09:36 PM #23
Rainmaker
404,880
Ellen Caruso
Daniel Gale Sotheby's International Realty - Glen Head, NY

Roger, your were a great friend and he a gifted master!

BTW, I know about those late night wake ups....My husbands meds since his heart attack sometimes leave him sleepless, and he wakes me up to help him fall back to sleep. LOL

April 19, 2012 07:58 PM #24
Ambassador
585,120
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Roger, unfortunately some peoples' bodies can't last long enough to match the spirit and others' spirits leave them much sooner than their bodies.  Your friend Abe had spirit and so do you.

April 20, 2012 04:14 AM #25
Rainmaker
1,392,526
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Thanks, will be back later to respond to each comment.

April 20, 2012 05:42 AM #26
Ambassador
706,852
Debb Janes
The Carl Group, LLC - Camas, WA
REALTOR®, EcoBroker Camas, Washington

It's Sunday morning - April 22nd. I am deeply moved by this lovely story and your mastery at bringing to life for us. You must write this book Roger. I hope the memories this dredges up are sweet ones for you --- sometimes reliving these moments can be very difficult. I know you must miss Abe, but how lucky to have seen "his light" shine. :)

April 22, 2012 06:37 AM #27
Rainmaker
1,392,526
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Very moving story Donna...........part seven sort of wraps it all up, this is really the end.

So right Sally and David..........he did light the way.

And I was fortunate to have him Tammie, thanks so much.

Thanks Rebecca, Abe was such a joy to spend time with, quite a character.  I feel very fortunate.

Like you can help him get back to sleep...........that's funny Ellen.  Thanks for the compliment.

That he did Mona, too bad his body couldn't last longer, the spirit was there.  Thanks so much.It 

It was difficult at times Debb, but the joy it brought me far out weighed those times.  It was such a wonderful experience for me.  The awards ceremony and the day he saw his Fifth Avenue apartment after I got it ready to sell were the best memories of all.  As far as writing a book, I wouldn't know where to begin, but thank you for your kind compliments.

April 22, 2012 06:47 AM #28
Anonymous
Post a Comment
Spam prevention

Accessibility option: listen to a question and answer it!

To submit the form,
drag the camera to the circle on the side.

Type below the answer to what you hear. Numbers or words, lowercase:

Show All Comments
Rainmaker
1,392,526

Roger D. Mucci

Lets shake things up at your home today!
Do you need to "shake it up" or start from scratch?
*
*
*
Spam prevention

Accessibility option: listen to a question and answer it!

To submit the form,
drag the airplane to the circle on the side.

Type below the answer to what you hear. Numbers or words, lowercase: