Father’s Day

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Real Estate Agent with Re/Max Crossroads

Father’s Day

In honor of Father’s Day, I thought I would share this story about my dad. My hope is that someday my children will look back, and be able to have the same love and respect for me; as I have for my dad. The following was from a passage from my blog from a couple of years ago…

I heard Dr. James Dobson explain faith as a relay race, where one generation runs their part of the race as best they can, and then hands the baton off to the next generation. I would like to share this story with you about my dad...

My father died when I was 22. My dad died before he ever got a chance to see me amount to anything. He never was able to see his grandchildren grow up. I never had the opportunity to ask him advice on buying a home, how to be a good parent. There was a song when I was growing up entitled, "My Dad"; which had a line in it, "He wasn't much in the eyes of the world, but he was the world to me."

That pretty much summed up my dad, he didn't leave us much in terms of worldly goods, but he did leave a great roadmap.

I'll share with you one story...back in the mid to late 50's, we took a family vacation to Florida and I can remember being in a gas station in the south and my dad was trying to pay for the gas. There was a black man who was in the store ahead of us and the clerk behind the counter wanted to wait on my dad ahead of the black man. I can remember my dad saying to the clerk, "But he was ahead of us." The man behind the counter then proceeded to tell my dad that, "Whites get waited on first!" The black man turned to my dad and said, "It's OK mister", but my dad looked back at the guy behind the counter and told him, "He was first."... this time in a much firmer voice. The clerk then muttered something under his breath about my dad, and waited on the black man.

Being a little boy I can just remember watching the whole thing unfold in front of me. I had to look up at my dad because I was a little over belt-high in height. My head kept turning back and forth between my dad, the clerk behind the counter, and the black man.

As an adult I can recall that event and I now view it from an adult's perspective. My dad knew the social rules of the time, and it wasn't just my dad trying to be polite. He never said a word to me about it, not on that day, not on any day after that. I looked up at him that day, but I continue to look up to him 40+ years later. I don't remember many Christmas gifts, or birthday gifts...but I do remember this gift...how to treat others.

After all these years, I now know that it all comes down to memories. It's not cars, homes, clothes. It's memories...that's how we live on... in the hearts and minds of the people who love us.

 

 

 

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Edward & Celia Maddox
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Your dad was something to stand up for what he believed was right.  It was very difficult to defy prejudice in the south in 1950s.

Jun 18, 2012 08:58 AM #1
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Jason Stewart
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Your dad was one amazing guy..You should really be proud of him.  Thank You for sharing this.  This is a very inspiring post.  Have a great week!

Jun 18, 2012 09:11 AM #2
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Mike Frazier
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Sounds like your dad was a man of principals, something sorely lacking today.

Jun 18, 2012 09:42 AM #3
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Thomas Craig
Re/Max Crossroads - Akron, OH

Ed and Celia,

Not only was my father a great man, but my father-in-law was a great man too. I was extremely blessed to have both men in my life!

Tom

Jun 18, 2012 10:05 AM #4
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Thomas Craig
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Jason,

Thank you so much for stopping by and for your kind words. I hope you have a wonderful week as well!

Tom

Jun 18, 2012 10:06 AM #5
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Thomas Craig
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Mike,

As always, your kindness is so appreciated! Take care, and thanks for your friendship!

Tom

Jun 18, 2012 10:08 AM #6
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