Loving a home and being in love in a home?

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Real Estate Agent with Re/Max All Properties New Lenox Illinois

Romancing the Home: Love is in the Air

 

When searching for a home, it is easy to "fall in love" with a property. Before you put in that offer though, ask yourself can you BE in love in the house? How a home stacks up in the realm of romance might take top tier in some people's list of priorities, but even if it doesn't, issues like privacy, noise, temperature and certain amenities can definitely break up your love affair with a property.

 

Loving a home and being in love in a home can go together. Look at properties that are well designed and maintained, easy to live in, and that are in areas that foster a sense of sanctuary, enabling people to be at their best. Homeowners that are seeking to amp up the warm feelings of love in their environment can find ways to evaluate homes with their own "way of life" in mind.

 

Much of the romance of a home is in the ability to control the environment to fit and to create a mood. Some elements are malleable and can be enhanced with modifications of paint and furniture, additional lighting, and personal items. By spending a few dollars, you can add things that are missing or replace items that are broken, dated, or poorly conceived. However, other issues are more challenging and potentially cost prohibitive to correct: the size of rooms, older wiring systems that cannot support a modern load, too few bathrooms or placement of the home on the property.

 

When assessing a property, here are some features to consider:

 

Privacy - How much privacy do you require from intruders, viewers, even other occupants of your home? How does the "lay of the land" or other buildings affect the privacy of your property? Having an audience or being the main attraction can take the romance right out of the air. In addition to the view you see or provide, think about noise. Are you constantly listening to your neighbors' conversations? Will they be hearing yours? Do children or frequent guests to your home affect the romantic atmosphere? Separation of spaces might be a useful filter in the evaluation of a home. And what about bathing, dressing? Ensure that everyone's sense of privacy can be achieved.

 

View - Does it inspire, envelop, overlook, or make you a subject? Privacy issues aside, consider the views from different vantage points. What you see can enhance or detract from a romantic atmosphere, so pay attention to views room-to-room and in transitions around the home.

 

Amenities - Are there features of a home, or luxuries that might be incorporated in a home that aid your romantic sensibilities? Many people like hot tubs, luxury bathrooms, large bedrooms, saunas or the benefits of well stocked wine cellars. If the home is lacking, can you add it? If the amenities are there, are they making up for something lacking? Consider rating and ranking amenities that are present and that could be added later. If there is a perfect place for the most idealistic of dreams, this could be a selling feature of the home - but the item might not be there, yet.

 

Lighting, both natural and augmented, should provide what you want where you want it. Do you like a dark bedroom in the morning, or would the sunrise be a welcome view? How is the house oriented and how will the changing light affect different rooms? Are light fixtures adequate and up-to-date? Are lights able to be dimmed, allowing control over mood? Is there a fireplace for light and warmth, or a great place for a fire-pit outside?

 

Ventilation/Heating and Cooling -Temperate breezes through open windows can be quite enjoyable in the right environment. However, kitchen smells and other lingering odors can be a detractor and stifle any sense of ambience. Being able to control airflow and in turn to control temperature and olfactory stimulus can be a key factor in many climates, from hot to cold. Face it: there's nothing enticing about the smell of stale air, being too hot or too cold.

 

Sound - Some sounds add to a feeling of tension or discontent. Systems that produce noise like heating or cooling systems, dishwashers, ventilation fans, even refrigerators can be noisy when running. Consider a trial run to understand the noise load if you are sensitive to such things. Outdoor noise may be out of a homeowner's control, but some newer homes have made advances to keep unwanted noise out. The addition of built-in speakers and audio systems enables additional control over the environment. Creating sanctuaries that attract song birds or water features that mask the sounds of traffic are also creative ways to add romance to the home.

 

So in this Valentine's season, ponder the romance of a home, the romance that happens in the home and the ability to make a home romantic.

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Rod Pierson
Mitchell & Associates - Redding, CA
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I look back at our own home purchase before I became a realtor, and we the agent after showing us over sixty plus homes after many weekend trips until I knew the day our agent drove up to the front elevation and opened the entry door, as a contractor I imagined the floor plan and knew right then I wanted that house.   It was cold, raining, no music but the seller left a few lights on and with the natural lighting it shined like a beacon.

Since I have been an agent always try to prepare prior but when you are working with buyers who have set aside a weekend I can go through a tank of gas showing as many as 15 homes in one day to a buyer who could look past all the fluff and knew the love of their life at first walk through.

Homes and neighborhoods sell them selves. 

 

 

 

 

Jan 28, 2014 10:14 PM #1
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Dale Taylor
Re/Max All Properties New Lenox Illinois - Frankfort, IL
Realtor = Chicago Illinois Homes Townhomes Condos

Rod, I had a similar experience with my first home.  I had my real estate license, and kept it a secret from our Realtor.  On the first tour, it was probably the 4th home we toured that day.  The curb appeal got me right away.  Upon entering, I told my spouse this is it.  She was unsure, but willing to trust me.  We never got to the remainder of the homes our Realtor wanted us to tour.  We lived in that home 9 years and made a nice profit.

On our 2nd home I was the Realtor serving my Spouse.  It took about 7 rounds of tour dates.  Each tour, I kept taking her back to this 2500 square-foot fixer upper.  Finally, with the promise I would have it fully remodeled within 30 days of moving in, she agreed to purchase it.  We lived in that home 7 years, and made a nice profit, enabling us to custom build our present 5100 square-foot home, we've lived in now nearly 11 years; with no intentions of moving any time soon.

I so agree with you.  The right home and neighborhood sell themselves and create longevity residence.  Thanks for sharing.  http://dtaylor.illinoisproperty.com

Jan 28, 2014 10:29 PM #2
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Rod Pierson
Mitchell & Associates - Redding, CA
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Dale, I the home we sold to

make the move was one of those spec builds by a contractor and I negotiated by suggesting I could do a lot of the labor, it too was a one of a kind property in a high end community built on the River,  we too were just out looking and I bought my first home when I turned 21 and went out looking for an investment property and with my negotiation skills on saving money by painting, staining, electrical, building the dock and other ways of saving money we put enough love into that home we lived there for twenty five years before we bought this home.  With the skills I built docks for spending money and built to spec homes, one on the river and one on a Golf course, I ended up getting by electrical contracting license and started a electrical contracting firm for over thirty plus years with the skills of that first home.

Our present home, I have turned it into a house with all the amenities including another six car garage shop with apartment above.   The house just lent itself to all the improvements while not over building the home.   I am how ever to build if I can ever find the ultimate property.   In the meantime we will live comfortably here, just ripped out all the cans and flooring in Kit, lndy, and baths and remodeled.   I could vision these improvement even when the house was only two years old when we bought it.    The neighborhood makes it easy to enjoy too.   

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Dale Taylor
Re/Max All Properties New Lenox Illinois - Frankfort, IL
Realtor = Chicago Illinois Homes Townhomes Condos

Rod, proud of you and your skills.

Jan 28, 2014 11:37 PM #4
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