Sorry, Mr. Buyer (or Realtor), you can't see the house in 5 minutes!

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX United Real Estate

I have this nice listing in Bethesda, MD that, for some reason, has been getting a lot of activity even though it's not cheap and it's not a "short sale" or foreclosure.  It's a normal, plain vanilla home sale. The reson it is a little surprosing that it is getting so much activity is because the list on it is over a million bucks.

I realize that's everyday stuff for some people but it's also in a neighborhood where, how do I put this delicately, people respect other people's privacy. They don't go barging in or calling at all hours.  They observe the courtesies of civil society.

Yet, for some reason, when people see a yard sign or something on the Internet they immediately want to take a look...and I mean immediately.  Even though I use a showing service and have it plainly listed in the MLS description, Realtors call me all the time with the "Can we see it in the next half hour?" question.  Or "my cleint is in front of the house, can we see it?"

NOOOOOO!  Call the showing service and pretend like you're someone wanting to show your own house. Give some notice. Allow that someone may be eating dinner or bathing the kids or just coming home from soccer practice.

Ditto to Buyers who are driving around and "just want to see" the house.

Yes, I want to help sell the house.  Yes. If you can afford to buy it (and aren't just driving around "dreaming") I would love to be able to help you buy it.  Let's pretend you're someone who wants to see your own house. Can I call you up from your driveway and ask to come in?

Oh, by the way, if there are no Open House signs or balloons or other indications that it's OK for you to just knowck on the door --- DON'T KNOCK ON THE DOOR! A family actually is living their life inside this house while trying to keep it in a condition Martha Stewart would envy and making plans to leave so you can view the home at your leisure. (True story: a couple just up an knocked on the door in the evening asking to see the house.  No warning. No Realtor.  No nothing. Just saw the sign.)

Selling or Buying a house is a stressful event.  We Realtors know this. Showing one's personal home, opening it up to virtually anyone who may or may not want to buy it is nail biting, white knuckling, hand wringing stressful. Let's try to make it a bit easier by giving a little notice and being a little nice about it.

Preparation is a virtue.

 

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Jimmy McCall
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Ken,  Here is an honest post.  I taught a blogging 101 class last week and fear of what to write are always the barrier to start blogging.  I think this post is a perfect example of what any Realtor can write if they took time to read what you put in this post.  Thank you for the effort.  I hope you don't mind if I refer to it in future blogging classes?

June 08, 2008 06:16 PM
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Dr. Stacey-Ann Baugh
A doctor who makes house calls.
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I agree Ken.  We had that happen on Memorial day where someone just knocked on the door asked to see the house and then drove off when my husband asked them for a few minutes (I actually did a post about REALTOR courtesy following this incident).  Of course we want to sell the listings but there are real people living in the house and some simple thoughtfulness could make the process easier for all.

June 08, 2008 06:26 PM
Rainer
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Ken Montville
The MD Suburbs of DC
RE/MAX United Real Estate

Vickie -- as slow as things are moving I'm surprised anyone is excited about anything!  :-)

Jimmy -- I'm flattered.  Thank you for the kind comment and, of course, you can point any and everybody to the post.

Stacy-Ann -- Thank God!  I was beginning to think I was the only one this stuff happened to.

June 08, 2008 06:49 PM
Rainer
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-- Casey Brischle
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I can definitely understand your frustrations of this, especially in a large city.  Luckily in our city, you can be anywhere within 20 mins.  Kinda nice.

June 08, 2008 11:39 PM
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Mike Klijanowicz
#1 Baltimore & Harford County Maryland REMAX Agent
Baltimore & Harford County Maryland - RE/MAX AMERICAN DREAM

AMEN, I can't stand getting those calls from my sellers yelling at me about the "unprofessional" agents out there who want to get in the home in 5 minutes or less.  While I understand that sometimes you didn't know that the property was on the market (if it was just listed), but after it has been on for 2-3 months, why not call a day in advance or at least an hour???

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