Helping a Senior Move Part II

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Real Estate Agent with Edina Realty

Yesterday I wrote about Helping a Senior Move Part I, this is the second chapter, and I'm sure there will be many more! 

I just received a phone call from my senior client who, two days ago had decided he wanted to move back home.  Over the last couple of days he has had some important discussions with his family and miraculously, went to visit a senior independent living community.  His family expressed their concern about his returning home and living alone.  He decided (in part, I believe to keep the peace) to move to an independent living community.  He called me today to ask me to continue to prepare the house for the market.

I pushed back a little when he told me this (Geez, my broker would have a heart attack if he read this). I asked him what happens if he doesn't like the next apartment and the house is sold? He answered confidently "My dear, this is a great place, wait until you see it."  I asked him how he knows this next apartment would be better than the first? It seems the residents are younger, healthier and more active-plus, there's a swimming pool right across the street.

SWIMMING POOL?!?

My client says "Yes, my dear. I want to be close to a swimming pool so I can keep this 85 year old body in shape!"

So, there you have it.  Everything I thought I knew about senior housing (the cost, available subsidies, remaining close to home, appropriate health care services) doesn't matter. It is officially about the swimming pool!

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George Tallabas
RE/MAX Advantage - Nampa, ID
Idaho Real Estate
Lisa, Sounds like he is man that knows what he wants and looks like he did the right thing in choosing a Realtor with a heart in you. Have wonderfu and blessed weekend!
Apr 06, 2007 10:57 AM #1
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Christine OShea
NATIONS - Naples, FL
Helping Buyers & Sellers in Naples and all of SWFL

Good for you Lisa, treat people just like you would want to be treated or want your parents treated.

My mother is 76 living alone in Baltimore.  She swims and has put her name and a deposit on an age restricted independent living development for when the time comes she can no longer tend her 100 plus roses, cut her lawn and shovel her sidewalk.  Take care, Christine

Apr 06, 2007 02:16 PM #2
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Boomer Jack Boardman & Carl McIntyre, the Codgers
Noted Curmudgeons - Saint Paul, MN

Lisa: Sounds like my kind of codger! You already know how we feel about your specialty, and you are obviously very good at it.

Jay 

Apr 06, 2007 04:33 PM #3
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Maurice McLaughlin
Nations Princeton-Nassau Inc. d/b/a NATIONS - Naples, FL
Maurice McLaughlin
NICE TO SEE HAPPY ENDINGS FOR ALL...EVEN THE CARING REALTOR.I can't help but think of the movie COCOON where all the seniors revitalized their youth by swimming in a pool....yes I guess pools are right on that list of importance.
Apr 06, 2007 06:14 PM #4
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Bonnie Erickson
The Realty Matrix - Saint Paul, MN
How refreshing to hear that you were concerned about whether this apartment would be better than the last.  We are of the same bent.  I don't know how many times I have talked myself out of a job because I was concerned that the client was indeed making the best decision!  It does pay off in referrals in the future.
Apr 06, 2007 06:23 PM #5
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Wayne McMullan
Royal LePage ProAlliance Realty - Belleville, ON
Quinte Real Estate
Lisa, I read your post yesterday and now there seems to be another reversal. Must have you going around in a bit of a circle. I hope he finds his happiness in the new biulding.
Apr 06, 2007 09:49 PM #6
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Lisa Dunn
Edina Realty - Minneapolis, MN
www.TwinCitySeller.com

George thank you for the kind words. You know how it is when you might have a difficult client in a difficult situation, when you genuinely "like" your client the amount of patience you can muster turns out to be easier than it sounds! 

Jay - He *IS* your kind of Codger, Wise, sweet and full of piss and vinegar!

Christine - you hit the nail on the head.  I treat my senior clients the way I would want someone to treat my parents.

Maurice - I do not think this is the ending of this story just yet. I think this character might have a surprise or two left in him!  We'll see!

Bonnie - I'm sure there are agents out there that would put the transaction first...but when you're watching someone trudge through a grieiving process and who is filled with indecision, I can't imagine puting the house before their needs.

Wayne - My gut tells me this isn't the last reversal for this client.  He's going through a tough time and these things take time to mend.

Apr 07, 2007 04:53 AM #7
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1SG (Ret.) David Kucic
Hawaii Military Realty, Inc. - Ewa Beach, HI
President and Owner
Lisa-Who would have ever figured?  I am glad that you were able to make that gentleman happy.  Aloha!
Apr 07, 2007 01:01 PM #8
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Lisa Dunn
Edina Realty - Minneapolis, MN
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David, Tanya- You just never know, do you?
Apr 07, 2007 04:25 PM #9
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